Dealing With Interruptions
Young children interrupt because whatever is on their mind is the most
important issue in the world at that moment. They are absolutely
convinced that you must be just as concerned about it as they are. At
this age, they must be taught when interruptions are appropriate and
when they are considered rude.
For older children who should know better, the key is to respond with a
signal such as holding out your hand in a typical "Stop" motion. However,
do not respond either with your voice or your eyes. The latter part of this
is particularly difficult and must be practiced. This is important because,
in our culture, we use both our voices and our eyes to start conversations.
If you turn and speak to children when they interrupt, they will start to say
whatever is on their mind. But if you turn and make eye contact with them,
that starts them talking as well. A "Stop" hand signal is the most effective
response. Then, at the right time, remember to ask them what they wanted
to say.
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